Jonathan Patrick Hayden 8/3/1968-11/16/2006 Jon always hated this photo, taken soon after we met. That's probably why I always kept it on my desk. |
You are probably first going to wonder how I wrote this, considering.
Today has been a very good day, and I am upbeat and able to tackle writing this. I knew that someday I would have to put this page up, and that someday has come, but today, the day that I write this, life is good, and I knew that this today I would never be able to finish this, and would never be able to tell you why we are closed. After fighting for almost all his adult life, Jon has lost the battle and he is no longer with me. Cancer has claimed another victim, and as it always seems to do, it has singled out not the person who as abused his body, not the person who has lived a life by using others, but a good person, a kind person, and a person who more than many I know, deserved to live. We had 15 perfect years of being together, working together, loving together, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I am the luckiest person in the world that he came into my life. He can never be replaced, and I will never try. And now, even though today is a good day, I am finding this impossible to finish. So on Jon's behalf, I want to thank you for your support of his site. It never got as big as he hoped, but he was still proud of it. Now it is time for the site to end as well. I wish you well. Good bye. Jim |